Thanks everyone. I especially appreciate a couple of you (Thanks Clara in Florida!!!) expressing your understanding of how this impacts hosts negatively when we take matters into our own hands and ask a guest to leave. I have already had my share of problems with air bnb and their automated computer ratings that impacted me negatively when it was something out of my control.
Also, I have no proof of illegal behavior so I wasn't going to accuse unjustly or have some negative outcome as a result of my actions. And I am new to this, but I did contact airbnb to ask for assistance but then lost the message and never sent it out.
So, I thought about several things I could do and several outcomes. I chose to hold off, pray, lock my bedroom and living area doors and deal with it later. My background is mental health so I observed, used some wisdom and then ended up just chatting with this young woman at an opportune time. I didn't bring up the matter of her "guests" as she is leaving shortly now and I didn't see it as productive at this point. And there were no more visitors. If there had been, I may have said something using my "skill set." I did get to know her a little bit. All I can say is that she is young and has a very sad story. Without getting into the details, I will connect with her later and offer some advice.
I have listed extra info under my house rules such as no other guests without prior request.. and if I approve I have the right to ask for i.d's or ask them to leave. I just agree with Clara from Florida-- that Airbnb should deal with any problems since they refuse to give us details about the guests. If they are going to be the "controller" on these things and leave hosts without info on guests, then they should have to deal with it. And again, without getting into more details, Airbnb could have done better with info provision in this case.
I do appreciate the support and input from you all because sometimes that's just what we need when anxious or frustrated. Thank you! 🙂