Hi @Sarah64 and @Momi0,
I am not so sure that Airbnb will fix this issue for you. You take the risk using IB and this time it worked against you. Airbnb states that you can cancel an IB IF you feel uncomfortable with a guest but that "calendar inaccuracy, confusion about pricing or availability, and extenuating circumstances are not covered by this policy".
I am sure that Airbnb may let you off but in my opinion, I hope they stick to their policy. If you are going to have Instant Book on AND have your listing on another site(s), you better be prepared to either turn it off right away when you get a booking from another site or immediately go into the app and block out the dates.
It also seems that you had no problem cancelling on this guest when you say, "her prayer must have been powerful, because within just a couple hours, the first reservation I had taken cancelled on me. I emailed her back and now she wants to rebook with me, but it won't allow her".
I also question the ethics when you state "I can't go about it "old school" because neither of us have eachothers contact information" which implies you thought about it.
I am getting quite frustrated by so many hosts cancelling on guests and then reacting with, "Help, my calendar is blocked" or "why am I having to pay a penalty?".
Sorry @Sarah64 but this "cancelling on a guest without consequences" strikes a nerve with me as so many hosts are thinking of themselves and not the guest who put their trust in booking YOUR place. This hurts all hosts and the Airbnb brand.
Dave
David
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