@Megan1430
It sounds like you set it up correctly. When I look at the listing it shows you as Host and your friend as Co Host (although they should still be listing owner). This is correct.
Guest Communications
The messages are a bit confusing as they show the profile photos of the person(s) who are in the message thread/reading the messages. This is the person who booked and any Co Hosts and other persons in the group who booked. The messages are actually from you as Host with the person booking and Co Host showing as "parties" to the communication...if that makes sense.
If you haven't turned OFF read receipts, you will also see who has read the message at the bottom of the message, or by clicking the 3 dots.
