I have been hosting for a year, and I only recently encountered this phenomenon. Living on the Gulf Coast, in a highly touristic area, everyone I've had here has been out exploring every day. So that is just what I came to expect, and why the hosting at my house has not been a problem. The guest suite is attached to my house, with a completely private entrance, bath, deck, and garden. But I feel I have to tone down my own activities when the room is occupied, so as not to disturb guests. Knowing that most are out half the time, it has until now never been an issue.
And I cannot conceive of booking to stay in the area here, and not having any curiosity about what the surroundings offer.
Until recently. I had one guest who had just been released from the hospital, and who was looking for a quiet place to stay for a day or two, before feeling up to driving back to her home a few hundred miles away. So that was understandable. And I could have easily declined.
But the next, was a couple who booked last minute, late at night, for a weekend. I'd not had an advance booking, so I left the same day booking turned on, since the room was ready. They said the trip here to spend time in the casinos had gotten derailed when their booked hotel rooms had been given to someone else. And they spent the entire weekend in the room until check out time. Then did not even leave a review, which also had never happened to me before.
The latest, who is here now, started with a red flag that I chose to overlook. A woman with an ABB account requested at 2am a stay for 10 days she said for her husband who is a travel nurse with a contract at a hospital nearby. I have had many travel nurses stay here, and I only hesitated momentarily at the fact that it was a third party booking. Which actually goes against ABB rules. But there was only one bad review, out of 10 plus, and I just went for the money. I will not do this again.
Six days now into the stay, the guest has only left the room to I presume go to his night shift at the hospital on the first three days. He'd said that he would be working nights. But the TV is running all day long, and his car is here 90% of the time. And the last two days there have been unregistered people coming by, staying for 10-15 minutes, then leaving again. They are not delivering food, so I do not know who they are. And I am trying not to let my imagination run wild on that one.
I have decided that if I see another one, I will have to confront him about my unregistered guest policy. He is booked to stay another 4 nights, and as I work regularly in my home office, I see and hear: the TV, the fans, the comings and goings. It is not what I came to expect after my first year of hosting, and I will be paying closer attention now to what people are actually going to be doing during their stays here. And things like why they do not have their own ABB accounts.
I do not use instant booking for these very reasons. But I realize that I still need to pay closer attention to my vetting emails. Three weeks now of feeling like I cannot move freely inside of my own house has been a lesson.