@Rebecca181 I so agree about the sense of entitlement of the millenials. My 35 year old daughter was visiting and staying with me for a couple of weeks, when she had a friend contact her who was also visiting in the area. My daughter asked if her friend could come and stay for a couple of nights, to which I said of course, even though I also had a friend visiting, so there were 4 of us in a small house.
Her friend, who was 38 years old, was bedded down on a spare foamy, given clean sheets and towels, offered coffee in the morning before she went off to town and the beach, and offered dinner the second night (she went off to eat in town the first night with my daughter). This girl (I hesitate to call her a woman, since her behavior was what I expect of a 15 year old) plugged in all her devices to my electricity, took long hot showers, sat for hours online arranging her work schedule (she cooks on yachts for rich folk and makes really good $), yet in spite of going into town twice while she was here, never thought to bring back a bottle of wine or a six-pack of beer, a dessert for all to share, or a even a small bag of groceries, or even to ask if there was anything she could do around the place to help out. I was left with her dirty sheets and towels to wash, and she made off with my $25 USB cube that she had been given to use (No, I'm sure she didn't steal it, she just thoughtlessly threw it in her bag with the rest of her electronics).
After she left, I had a conversation with my daughter regarding her friend's lack of visible appreciation for being given a free place to stay for 2 days and nights in an expensive tourist town in the middle of high season. My daughter said she thought I was being totally unreasonable and that I shouldn't expect anything from someone to whom I have offered my hospitality. So her view was exactly like her friend's and I can assure you I didn't raise her to think like that, and that her 2 older sisters definitely would not hold the same view, nor would they dream of taking advantage of someone's hospitality without offering something to show their appreciation.