@Joseph1...Hi Joseph, I know what I said was offensive to you and, in a way I am sorry if it was but, we have seen exactly this scenario before more times than I could count!
Now Joseph I would love to think that you, are going to be like me! You are going to absolutely love hosting, you are going to treat guests to your best cooking skills, you are going to be the finest host that you can be....because, that is what people come to this site for! They want to be hosted....otherwise they would just book into a hotel!
So often we see hosts cancel bookings, and Joseph, you have to put your mind in the place of that person who has chosen to book you. They have chosen to book your accommodation, it's a big leap for them, they place travel plans around that....and you cancel! Joseph, you can't do that! There are all sorts of ways around booking problems but you must know what those ways are....As I said, "I didn't know' is not good enough.
If you would read my reviews you would know what it is like to be a host, and Joseph I would love you to be just that....but you must go about it the right way! I don't want to see our good work undone by those who don't see the need to follow rules....Joseph, the ball's in your court......cheers....Rob