No idea why you’ve brought gender into this, but no, it is not a female. I agree with you safety should be of utmost concern—regardless of gender.
I had my cleaner and non emergency personnel go to the cabin to check since I’m out of state, and they said the sliding glass door was cracked maybe 1”.
The guest casually walked in and casually walked out 10 minutes later and then started messaging me that they felt unsafe and want a refund.
If the door was legitimately cracked when they arrived, I can understand the concern, but I’m not sure why they would have stayed inside for 10 minutes and then calmly leave claiming a safety concern.
If all it takes to get a full refund is opening a door and claiming it was like that when you arrived, there are going to be a lot of guests who abuse this.
I normally give people the benefit of the doubt, but this feels like someone who changed their mind upon arrival and knows how to game the system (they have tons of reviews so they clearly know how Airbnb works).
Thanks for your perspective though!