Welcome!
I very much doubt you will be able to get the money back from Airbnb, I wouldn’t even waste time trying.
Airbnb are really pushing Instant Booking, and I think it is the default setting for new listings. When (if) you turn it off, they will make you think you are making the dumbest mistake ever…😏 But do it anyway.
If you are not ready to host/if there are nights you don’t want to host, your calendar should not be open - even if you switch to Request to Book, declining several requests can hurt your rank in searches.
I suggest you check your settings, and think carefully about which settings suit you. I would recommend:
- Don’t use Instant Booking
- Don’t use Smart Pricing
- For the calendar/availability, choose ”Dates unavailable by default”, and manually open only dates you are sure you want to host
- Don’t accept same-day bookings, as you will want to have time to vet the guests before accepting/declining. I have a 2-day lead-time (there is a setting for this).
- Don’t do same-day turnovers (check out and check in on the same day) - can be very stressful, especially if a guest is late checking out, or leaves the place needing more cleaning than usual (there is a setting that automatically blocks days before/after bookings)
- Carefully consider if you want to accept 1-night bookings - is there a risk of attracting the wrong kind of guests?
- If you are considering accepting long term stays, read up on the warnings here.
- Scammers target new hosts. You might be contacted by ”guests” with no reviews, inquiring about longer stays, and asking you to send more photos/films off platform (cannot be sent via Airbnb chat). Never communicate off platform. Reply to the message, then click to report the profile to Airbnb.
- Read up on the difference between inquiries and requests to book - with inquiries you don’t need to pre-aporove/decline, only answer with a message.
Good luck!