I have been hosting since April and absolutely love it! Meeting lots of lovely people. Enjoying reading about what other hosts like in a listing! I now ask if they use Glade or any other air fresheners as I can't tolerate the toxicity. When I asked the woman at one place I rented if could take them out she laughed and said, "yes, lots of people ask me that, but I like a little Hawaiian scent." I left after the first night of a 3 night stay because of it. Disgusting smell in the sheets, towels, bedding! Wondered what she was trying to cover up. Even animals around that much scent can't smell anymore!
Got to have my own bathroom and I provide a separate bath as well, as well as nice bedding and a thoughtful and lovely decor - no junk, clutter, or old furniture - I want a room that is solely for my use. I'm realizing as I host that most people do not bother to even read the rules and in my house; they are legion. Some people really seem to enjoy my thoroughness because they're not impossible. And I like having rules of the house made known in the listings. The above lady with the Glade had maybe two rules and I wondered about that and now I know. The first person who stayed with me, as be broke a couple of my rules, told me in the private space that if I'm going to rent to strangers, I need to be flexible. Glad he said that because I realized that though he may be paying, he is in MY home so he gets to be flexible and do as he said he would by renting from me. I do like to be flexible, especially with the young people who come and have no clue what it is to be quiet between the hours of 10 p.m. and 7 a.m. But truly, I'd like to refuse to host anyone younger than 25.
I always communicate with a host and tell them my full name and my roommates name and a little about our trip and I also have info about me in my profile. So amazing to me how many people have hardly any info about themselves and I'm left to guess. Plus, they tell me they are bringing a "friend" but don't bother to tell me the name even or anything about their trip. Now, I ask them to do that in my description - of all places to do that! Works better, though!
I don't expect breakfast as I am plant-based and most people don't know what that is. I like to have an assortment of teas or coffee, but there is usually no honey or plant-based creamer, so it's not a deal breaker. I just provide for my guests what I would like to have.
I used to work at a hotel and know for sure that they do not wash or replace bedspreads in between customers (which is why I never laid on them) and I don't do that, but I do wash them every couple of months. I like the idea of using duvet covers that some have said here.