"I'm very afraid of bugs"

Michelle53
Level 10
Chicago, IL

"I'm very afraid of bugs"

I have a guest who booked for 5 days, but only showed up last night, day 3, because she was very busy at work and "crashed at a friend's house" for 2 nights.

 

I just received a panic phone call from her that there is a bug outside on the wall and she is "very afraid of bugs".

 

She wanted me to provide a rake to kill it. I asked her not to do that, and I would take care of it when I got back from work.  Questions indicate it may be a cicada. Not harmful. 

 

I told her that I mention bugs specifically in my listing and asked why she would book a garden unit if she was very afraid of bugs.

 

She said she didn't see my bug disclaimer. 

 

Before I document this in messaging, when it's taken care of,  anyone have any suggestions as to next steps?

 

I'm a bit suspicious this is a refund request in the making.

 

Thoughts, anyone?

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Laura2592
Level 10
Frederick, MD

@Michelle53she wants you to kill a bug that is outside? Uhhh....

 

I would just say "Hi Guest- I have complied with your guest to dispose of the insect you saw outside my space. As we discussed there is a disclosure in my listing that insects may be on site from time to time. I wish I had the power to control every aspect of the environment for a guest's comfort but nature has a mind of its own! Please enjoy the rest of your stay and have a great day,"

 

Under no circumstances would I refund this person. You disclosed it, and expecting an outside space to be insect free is really going beyond reason. I can't imagine that ABB would side with this guest.

@Laura2592  Thanks!  I thought my run of great guests was too good to be true.  I had that sinking feeling after she asked me for late check out - I agreed to 2 hours - and then showed up early,  and wanted early check-in, as well,  which I declined. 

Pat271
Level 10
Greenville, SC

In Hawaii, there are all forms of critters, as you can imagine - outside, mostly, but sometimes they get in. Depending on how familiar the guest is with these kinds of critters (geckos, ants and tree roaches, mostly), I sometimes get guests who are startled by them. Coming from Northern California, I actually was also, the first time I came to Hawaii. Startled might even be an understatement in my case. 🙂

 

Because these critters are so common in Hawaii, there is a disclaimer in our house rules as follows:

 

Guest also understands that Hawaii is located in a tropical climate, and that insects, rodents and lizards flourish in this environment. Although Owner will use its best efforts to hold to a minimum your interaction with these pests during your stay, Guest understands that any contact by Guest with such a pest within or outside the unit does not constitute a breach of this Agreement or give Guest any right to any refund or rental adjustment.

 

That being said, a host should still be concerned and do their best to mitigate the situation if a guest reports bugs, rodents, etc., especially inside the house. The two times my guests have reported bugs in the house, I have called our condo office and set up an extra treatment (the units are treated every quarter), which the management was happy to provide.

 

A word about hospitality - Treat the guest’s concerns as real, always, even in your case, with a bug outside the window. Don’t apologize, but don’t dismiss the guests feelings either. Be empathetic, but firm about any form of compensation. It’s a fine line, and takes a bit of finesse and experience to get right. 

 

@Pat271 "Treat the guest’s concerns as real, always, even in your case, with a bug outside the window." Sure, easy enough to do, if all guests were truly just freaked out by a bug. I believe we all understand hospitality. But too many guests use something like that as a tactic to wrestle a refund for their stay. Notice how  @Michelle53 's first thought ran to 'refund' ? 

Debra300
Top Contributor
Gros Islet, Saint Lucia

@Pat271 

Our guesthouse is located in the tropics also, and frequently there are bugs and critters on the premises. We've not made a disclosure like yours, but do state that guests must not leave out open food and beverages, because it attracts vermin.  Fortunately, only once have we been asked by guests to get rid of a spider.  Ironically, they asked Keep Cool for assistance, and he doesn't like spiders.  So, we all had to tag-team to sweep it in a jar to relocate it outside.

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Michelle53
Level 10
Chicago, IL

@Pat271    Thanks for that. I just got home and found the offending bug, which turned out to be just the shell of a cicada after a molt.

 

The guest was here, so I knocked on the door to see if she was ok, and she said she was sorry for making a fuss, after I explained it was harmless. 

 

I talked to her, a bit, about cicadas, and she seemed better, after that. Always lived in apartments. 

 

She also said she went back and read the listing properly. 

 

Crisis averted. 

@Michelle53   Well done; you handled that beautifully!  Sometimes guests just need someone to listen,  no matter the cause.  I bet her review will be full of praise for you. 🙂

Kitty-and-Creek0
Top Contributor
Willits, CA

@Michelle53 

Good for you! This is a great opportunity for gentle education. Your guest is definitely an apartment dweller, and you have provided an opening for her to better appreciate nature and your garden. I leave field guides and nature books in my guest space, perhaps she'd love one on butterflies? 

@Kitty-and-Creek0    I might get to a local field guide, one day. There's a lot of wildlife in the city actually, outside of insect life  - skunks, raccoons, opossums, coyotes, deer. I think people just imagine a city to be all concrete and skyscrapers, and don't realize we have a lot of parks and open space, and thriving gardens. 

@Michelle53 

Chicago is a very green and gorgeous place, I loved my visit there. You have a lot of wonderful birds too, all over the gorgeous Great Lakes region. I'm overdue for a return visit to spend time in Oak Park (we have a Frank Lloyd Wright school home), and take in your wonderful art, music and museums! Such abundance! 

Hal3292
Level 9
Bluefield, WV

It's hard for me to imagine any building that touches the ground and has an outside wall -- any building ever built anywhere, that wouldn't have a bug on it from time to time! I can't believe this would constitute grounds for a refund, but maybe I just haven't been a host for long enough....

"....maybe I just haven't been a host for long enough". @Hal3292 Yes, that's it, lol.

Colleen253
Level 10
Alberta, Canada

@Michelle53 I have nothing of substance to add here. Sorry. I like what @Laura2592 suggested, as always.

 

Is there no end to the ridiculousness of some people? How does one actually make it through adulthood needing a stranger to kill a bug outside for you? You're not in the tropics. I would be embarrassed to even ask something like that. 

 

 

@Colleen253   Maybe I've been reading the CC boards too long, but I kept wondering if CS was going to give a sympathetic ear to it.   When I had my "spider episode", CS was particularly unsympathetic to the idea that bugs can occasionally get inside.  Perhaps they would also rule that bugs outside would equally ruin the guest experience.