Why do you think Airbnb sounds a nightmare because a few people complain on forums out of the thousands and thousands that are hosting? @Terri292
Why do you feel it would be any easier using another listing company?
Issues in the main relate to how you run your listing, not which company you use.
Running an STR business is like running any other business you need to put system in place to minimise risk - in the case of CCTV, strict house rules, vetting guests effectively to ensure a good fit, using a local co-host if you list remotely etc.
If you set up and manage your listing properly your risks are minimised.
I have been running STRs for five years, hundreds of guests - never had a damage claim, never had a problem with noise, never had a problem with additional guests coming in who haven't booked.
You've chose difficult times to set up your STR business. If you don't like how Airbnb operates do a google for similar properties in your area and see what other local, national and international platforms they are using to advertise and also look at marketing directly through your own channels.