@Randy----Linda0
"Unless I am missing something why doesn't Airbnb share all the guest names as listed by the booking person? This would make our life much easier and much less stress full."
Airbnb has never been very interested in making things better for hosts. It's guest experience only they are interested in bettering. Guests make them more money.
I abhor 'guest 2' 'guest 3' and so on, myself. I have it in my house rules that ALL adult guests on the booking must either be linked in to the booking with their profiles, or the booking guest can provide full names. I state that this is required before a booking will be accepted. I find that works much better that being faced with potentially having to cancel a booking.
If they don't like that, or don't want to provide names, then I probably don't want them at my house.