This article is a part of a series about building connection through hospitality.
I host two yurts in England. Our yurts, which are a type of round tent with a wooden frame, can accommodate up to 10 guests. I've noticed over the years that groups of young people often book them for get-togethers. Many groups come from big cities in the U.K., like Manchester or London, and they don’t often have experience with wood-burning stoves. They also seem unsure of how I will welcome them and respond to their questions.
I’m eager to share my yurts and the beautiful countryside with guests, especially young travelers. I always greet them with a smile. I enjoy welcoming everyone without pre-judgments. As guests settle in, I explain how to light the stove or show them the trail toward our ice cream farm with petting goats, pigs, and rabbits. I see my smile reflected in their eyes, and I can feel them relax a little. In many cases, the entire group soon realizes my welcome is genuine, and their confidence in me grows.
Sometimes the group consists of foreign students—friends from the same country or different countries. I’m always curious where they’re from, and I love when they share a bit about their backgrounds and cultures with me. I think they’re often surprised by how accepting I am.
I always invite them to make themselves at home. I’ve noticed my younger guests often want space, so I give it to them while making myself available if they need anything. I always see them again before they check out. It brings me sheer joy to hear about the wonderful time they’ve had.
It’s why I love doing what I do: Hosting builds community. I’m playing my small part in alleviating loneliness in young people by wholeheartedly welcoming them in a place they may not have expected to feel at home.
How do you help your guests feel at home? What stories do you have about guests that were exceptional? How did your hospitality set them up for a great stay?
