@Lucille57
I just sent you an INQUIRY using the “contact host” function. You can ignore the annoying messages Airbnb will send you. You do not have to accept or decline nor will the dates I was required to choose at random be blocked on your calendar.
If someone sends a REQUEST TO BOOK it is different. Then you should either pre-approve or decline.
I know that all this is confusing and I had to have it explained to me more than once.
The website is needlessly complicated and difficult to deal with, but coming to this forum is an excellent way to learn how to use it.
Good luck and feel free to ask questions and share your experiences.