Are you running an STR business contrary to the terms of your HOA lease .
Surely you would have checked the lease before starting up your business ..
if you aren't breaking the terms of your HOA lease demonstrate this by providing them with a copy of your lease. If you aren't breaking breaking the terms then you need to put your listing on hold and cancel any upcoming bookings @SM-Elite-Stays0
the HOA isn't 'ruining you' if you've been operating and STR business against the terms of your lease.