@Ginger77
I am sorry for your first and bad experiences 😞
I looked at your listing and it is perfect for parties... that's not good at all. Huge living room, big kitchens, 5 bedrooms, 10 guests, 5 beds, huge balcony, huge terrace, self-check-in, young female and inexperienced host... uh uh... 😞
If you want to continue to rent it a short term you should do something about it. First, If possible, I would divide the house into 3 smaller units for smaller groups, 2-4 people. Everything more than 4 guests in a group is risky.
Second, I would (and I do) meet my guests personally at arrival and show them around.
Third - put in your house rules and ask all your guests to show you their photo ID at arrival. All the people in the group. Make it mandatory. Take a photo or write down all their personal info: Names, nationality, ID number, date of birth, country of birth, gender...
Forth, set a security deposit
If possible - put security camera around the house (not inside) so you can see if your guests have visitors.