Heart Breaking Dog with Neglectful Owner ... Now What?

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Dani128
Level 1
Silverton, OR

Heart Breaking Dog with Neglectful Owner ... Now What?

All,

 

I am a new host and am trying to write a review for our third guest who was less than forthright about his situation and needs for his dog. My fiance and I are huge dog lovers who wanted to provide a place for people who travel with their dogs, so we set up our house specifically to be "dog proof" so we wouldn't be upset when accidents happen. (I also am a full-time dog sitter right now). As Airbnb suggested, we kept our prices low to generate interest. What I should have realized what that this was setting us up for problems, and it did. We have since decided to change our policy. We will no longer take pets after this first experience,  we've added a security deposit, and we have increased our prices, disregarding Airbnb's suggested prices, even though it will likely mean less business for us.  

 

Our first two guests were awesome. Our third guest had a dog that had suffered a spinal injury and was recovering. The guest reached out to us [partially] explaining his situation, and after reading his 5-star reviews, I booked him at a discounted rate out of compassion. (Bad move). So they arrived and the dog had an accident in the house in the first five minutes—okay, dogs get excited, no biggie. I talked to the guy outside for about an hour while we were with his dog and I found out that the guy was essentially homeless. He had been living at Airbnbs and out of his car for the past 18 months with his poor dog. At this point, alarm bells were ringing LOUDLY. After our talk, the dude went into his room, closed the door, and left his dog outside, unattended. It started to rain (it's Oregon) ... and the dog sat outside in the rain. I brought the dog inside, which was a feat unto itself because 1) the dog is big, 2) the dog is injured, and 3) the dog is terrified of and cannot walk on hardwood floors due to his injury. (It's obvious from the pictures that our entire house is hardwood). When the weather broke, I got the dog back outside where he remained through the evening. Later that night, I knocked on the guy's door and asked him if we was going to feed his dog dinner. (WTF?). That prompted him to get up and take care of him, but then he went right back to his room and continued to neglect his dog. He left him outside until well after we went to bed. We were heartbroken at the treatment but did not know what to do. The dog was inside when I got up to check on him at 5 AM. When the dog woke up, he pe’ed where he stood on the area rug because he couldn't walk across the hardwood to the door. (Thankfully I caught him mid-stream and was able to get a towel under him and get him outside and double thank god for Ruggable, washable rugs). That's when I realized the guy was keeping his dog outside because his dog could not control his bladder anymore. I was devastated. Not about the rug, but about the way this guy was neglecting his dog. Fortunately, the universe intervened and the stay ended due to circumstances beyond my control. My fiance and I were emotionally distraught and if we had had the means, we would have asked the guy to just leave his dog with us. 

 

Now, I have to write a review. I want to be honest but diplomatic. I cannot give this guy a positive review because he should have been completely honest with us (and himself) about his dog's needs, but I don't want them sleeping on the street either. We have more than enough homeless people in Oregon as it is. His dog would do better in a farm-type situation where he doesn't have to contend with stairs or hardwood floors; our home was just too hard on the dog and heartbreaking for us. I don't even know where to begin. I want to keep it very short. Suggestions? Thank you for listening.

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Tina274
Level 2
Dolton, IL

Hi. And wow!! Sorry for your experience. I'm not a dog owner, but there is "on the job training" so to speak, when you become a host. I have a friend whose dog had bladder problems, she had him in a diaper until she got home from work and could take him out. Is that an option for you guys, to provide diapers? Also, it's probably not a good idea to offer discounted rates if the person is a new guest, at least not when you guys are getting started. If the discount is already built in that's one thing, say the lower rate to generate interest. But to discount further from the rate shown can be problematic. Be honest with his review. He himself was quiet and kept to himself, or so it sounds, but he did not provide the best care for his dog and it broke your heart. You may want to wait until the 13th or 14th day to leave the review so he may be less likely to rebut in an angry fashion. Hope this helps.

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Lisa723
Level 10
Quilcene, WA

That is a very sad and difficult situation, and unfortunately here in Oregon there are many dogs and people living on the streets. Re. the review, you can simply state your experience, that this guest travels with an injured dog that cannot handle stairs or hard-surface floors, is incontinent, and was left outside much of the time, would do best in a listing that can offer outdoor shelter for it. Maybe you can contact local animal rescues for resources you could provide to the guest in private feedback? I hope you will reconsider discontinuing hosting pets. We've allowed dogs at our vacation rentals for years with no bad experiences (other than people who fail to pick up after them outside). Higher prices will bring better guests.

Thank you. I really like what you've written here about how to best meet the needs of the dog. This would be a constructive response. I appreciate you taking the time. I also appreciate the suggestion on the contacting the local rescues. I'd love for us to have pets here and we probably will change our minds once we have recovered emotionally. 

Tina274
Level 2
Dolton, IL

Hi. And wow!! Sorry for your experience. I'm not a dog owner, but there is "on the job training" so to speak, when you become a host. I have a friend whose dog had bladder problems, she had him in a diaper until she got home from work and could take him out. Is that an option for you guys, to provide diapers? Also, it's probably not a good idea to offer discounted rates if the person is a new guest, at least not when you guys are getting started. If the discount is already built in that's one thing, say the lower rate to generate interest. But to discount further from the rate shown can be problematic. Be honest with his review. He himself was quiet and kept to himself, or so it sounds, but he did not provide the best care for his dog and it broke your heart. You may want to wait until the 13th or 14th day to leave the review so he may be less likely to rebut in an angry fashion. Hope this helps.

Thank you so much. You are the second person who mensioned diapers as a solution and I have used them for female issues with dogs in the past. It's a great idea. And thank you for the tip on waiting to post. I have been giving myself space and time to reply so I can give constructive feedback. 

Chelsea122
Level 2
London, United Kingdom

Please help the doggy 😞 

 

RE the review, just write what you've said.


If he writes a bad one you can reply to it ayway

Thank you for responding. We will try to help the dog, and at the very least try to help the owner help the dog.