I actually NEED the money. BUT. I require a 4 night minimum because I do the same amount of cleaning... washing the sheets, towels, dusting, vacuuming, washing the floors, the toilet, the tub, the bathroom mirror, emptying their trash, doing their recycle, cleaning out the frig...ALL. OF. IT. whether someone stays 4 nights or 2 weeks. Add the toothpaste, the soap, the shampoo, the toilet paper, the dish detergent, the laundry detergent, all of which I supply! It's NOT worth it to have someone for only 2 nights. I fail to mention the cleaning up after someone using my kitchen if they are less then on top of it. It is a lot of work .
As far as the partying? Because I am a host and not a guest, I am not famaliar with airbnb's guidelines as to how to be a good guest. In my situation, I am actually sharing my living space . "Guests" are just that. They are guests in someone's home and I expect them to act accordingly. I would have no compunction in letting someone know that their behavior is not appreciated. Maybe set up a few rules in your description.
And good luck.