@Pamela149 - you are learning a valuable lesson about getting to know your guests before they arrive. It is a conversation that not only sets expectations, but provides you with a level of comfort for allowing a stranger in your home. Talking on the phone is not typical with Airbnb but if you want it to be, make sure you put that you will want to chat with the person on the phone directly right in your listing so guests know to expect something outside the norm. Once he booked, he was provided with your name, address and phone number and may not feel the same sense of urgency that you do. Your cautiousness is amplified by the anxiety of your first guest. It's probably fine and he's probably going to be a decent guest. Take this opportunity to write to your other reservations and get to know them better before they arrive so you can be more relaxed when they arrive.