@H71
You have to take into consideration lots of people on this forum live in different times zones, I find Americans never realise that, There is a big wide world out there,
I have had it, 2-30 am "Are you sleeping" me. No Im skydiving, sorry joking.
Yep we get messages all time of the day and night, I once had airbnb cancel a booking because I didn't answer my phone at 3am, The CS woman completely did not understand it was 3am and was sleeping like most normal people do. such is life,
I will say Airbnb has been good for us over the years I know thats no consolation to you at this moment,
There are many other options besides airbnb although airbnb has been the best regarding bookings, dont have all your eggs in one basket, this can happen to anyone at anytime,
For you guys in America you have many OTA's to get your property listed, You can always open another airbnb account in your partners name, Get yourself covered.