Here is an update.
I got rid of my old teflon stuff and during this replacement cycle am experimenting with some stainless steel pieces and a single non stick pan.
I bought the Polerad combo from Ikea, it was $99 for the set. One pan and 5 pots, with 5 lids. I put 4 of the pots in my unit and the pan. I like that they have measuring marks on the inside and hope they will be durable and clean well.
Here is a photo of the pan looking worn from bacon cooking, but after some baking soda you can see the result, and after more baking soda it looks almost like new.
The nonstick pan I bought is Oumbarlig ($13), its a good size to make omelettes. I put a "hand wash" and "hot handle" sticker on the end of the handle.
I only have one metal utensil, a whisk, and will soon replace it with silicone. That will leave flatware but I hope that this set can last at least a year which would be a nice improvement.
Thanks everyone for the input.