I'm actually dealing with a guest like that right now as we speak. And yes, she is from China.
The problem with most Chinese guests (especially the younger generation,) is that all the prosperous families have maids in their homes doing all the housekeeping work. Younger generations don't have to lift a finger to do anything. Sadly, they also see their hosts as their Filipinos maids.
I'm renting a room with a shared bathroom in my condo. My guest has booked a 10-days stay (3 more to go).
I feel sad about this, but I'm at the point to either kick her out or say something unpleasant to her.
I cannot begin to explain the amount of frustration that she has caused to me since she arrived. For starters she uses at least 5-6 towels x day, leaves massive amount of mess everywhere, dirty blender, cups and dishes allover my place, dirty makeup, clothes, bags and food everywhere. She has also taken over the entire condo. Her belongings are all over the place, but the biggest problem is the bathroom.
In almost a year of hosting, I’ve never witnessed this before. This person pretty much floods the entire bathroom every time she uses the shower. She doesn’t use the shower curtain; she doesn’t dry all the water afterwards. The bathroom floor and the rug are completely soaked every time.
You see, I have marble floors and extended amount of water on the floor can result in damage of the tiles.
I’ve been cleaning after her for a week now, and yesterday I finally told her NICELY to not leave the bathroom all flooded anymore. She replied with an annoyed expression, but eventually agreed.
Couple of hours later the bathroom was worse than ever before. She has now started to do this it even more frequently. Last night she was screaming at 1 am, calling my name. I ran to see and she was holding a clean top-bedding sheet that she took from my closet without asking, saying that there was a worm and some kind of weird nonsense…
I just can’t take it anymore.
I've become so aggravated that I decided to leave and go stay at my friend’s hose for 2-3 days until she’s gone.
Needless to say, I am now a hostage. If I say something to her she will leave negative review. If I don’t, she may do that anyways…
This is beyond senseless! Why can’t the hosts do anything when the insolent guests disrespect the house rules? There should be some kind of punishment in a form of mandatory rules review before guests like her can book again.