@Paige73
Now Paige, I would just bet she had a heap of questions prior to her arrival. I would also bet the message stream with this guest would be as long as your arm!
Paige....never get involved with 'Hagglers'........ those you want you to host on their terms, they do not want to be a guest on your terms. They ask lots of questions and keep on bombarding you with question and statements because with each comment on their part they strengthen their ground and weaken yours.....you just keep giving in to them.
When a booking enquiry or an initial IB message comes to you it will come one of two ways....
"We love the look of your property can't wait to stay"....simple as that.
Or it will be a series of 'feelers' they would no doubt have noticed if they had bothered to read the house rules.
This will not go well for you Paige, but I have to say, the warning signs were probably there.....all you can do is minimise the damage. Be pleasant but firm and stop giving into her. You will not get a good review, but don't lash out in the review system keep it short and professional and not too specific. The review will soon disappear into obscurity and we in the hosting community are not fools, we can spot a rotten egg!
Sorry you have struck one like this Paige, we all get them but you do after a while get to pick them.
Remember, a guest is going to fall into one of two categories....Passive, complimentary, or they are going to be Aggresive, demanding.....and you can tell by that initial contact which camp they are going to fall into.
Sorry I can't be more help than that Paige....all the best.
Cheers......Rob