@Wendy20 Yes, what @Marit-Anne0 says is correct, however, if one party leaves a review and the other doesn't, the review will be pubic after 14 days. I had a guest not leave me a review, but I had reviewed her. Her review became public after 14 days.
As far as witholding reviews to avoid a negative one, well, that's not helping the Airbnb community. Each host owes it to other hosts to leave a short review if the guest is undesirable. My benchmark for a negative review is whether I would want the guest to come back or not. If not, then it's a negative review, the severity of which depends on the circumstances.