@Natalie62 A friend of mine who also has an Airbnb, is experienced at vetting guests, and gets sane, adult, respectful guests, lives next door to a big house with off-site host that gets large groups of party animals. One group, that had been hooting and hollering drunkenly in the pool until 3AM complete with blasting music, had been asked by her, her husband, and other neighbors to please keep it down- that they had rented a home in a residential neighborhood, not rented a nightclub. One of the guest's response to this was -"It's an Airbnb rental!" As if this was synonymous with PARTEEEE HOUSE!
I don't really understand how this shift in mentality came about, but it appears to be quite prevalent now. The Gen-Xers, who refused to take advice on child rearing from their parents or grandparents, preferring instead to get their advice from new-age books and online blogs ("oh, Mom, that's such old-school thinking"), seemed to have produced quite a lot of entitled, arrogant brats.