@Kerry26 @Helen3 @Mike-And-Jane0 @Helen350 @Gabriel607 and others on this thread.....Kerry, so sorry you are having such a struggle, challenge and battle as so many thousands of other hosts/people right this minute over the world - it's perhaps no comfort but you are not alone.
I have no answers but, this thread has exhausted me with the back and forth - right/wrong - bottom line its all a difficult time/ desperate times for many and will absolutely change many lives, worlds, businesses, relationships .....and end many of those.
May we all somehow find a sense of peace midst the chaos and be able to glance forward to better days ahead. Only one thing is certain.....CHANGE.
Many Blessings All, stay safe, stay well & Happy New Year