You’ll have to get used to this @Sally819 @I’m afraid, especially if you charge a cleaning fee. You will, it’s just part and parcel of hosting!
We don’t charge a cleaning fee, so I find it irritating when guests leave bins overflowing, black footprints in the bath and empty water bottles strewn in every bedroom. But you just have to suck it up. I deffo wouldn’t raise anything like that with a guest - just grit your teeth and hope you’ll at least get a good review to make it all worthwhile!
On the subject of stripping beds (I don’t want my guests to do that…noooooo), I had one lady who proudly messaged me to let me know she’d stripped the beds. Great, thank you, I replied, while thinking exactly the opposite. When I arrived at the apartment I found she’d simply taken the sheet off each bed and left the duvet covers and pillow cases in place (for the next guest, presumably 😂). Is this a cultural thing? She was from the US - maybe my friends from over the pond can advise? 😉😉🙏