Unaccepted Extra Guest, Communication and Behaviour Issues, Breaking House Rules, Uncomfortable Situation

Sarah327
Level 7
England, United Kingdom

Unaccepted Extra Guest, Communication and Behaviour Issues, Breaking House Rules, Uncomfortable Situation

Hi Fellow Airbnb Hosts... now here's an interesting situation that I would really appreciate your thoughts on and advice!

 

My current guest booked for one week; mother and son (age unknown)

Arrived with extra guest; friend of son (both 16 yrs)

Appeared not to realise we live onsite when I greeted them, as extra guest initially didn't emerge from vehicle

Immediately advised a charge applied for additional guest and ensured reservation amended before guest entered property

Some protest from guest, but she accepted the change
Also, advised the guest the property has only a king-size and a single bed; assuming the boys would share the larger bed

Guest stated her son would share a bed with her


Next day boys attempted to forcefully open a latched gate with a high kick (leg at 90 degrees) 

Messaged guest via platform to state behaviour unacceptable

Later that day it started to rain heavily when I realised the guest had left the bedroom windows open
Entered property to find almost all windows upstairs left open and rain coming in

Also, noticed a pillow and blanket on the upstairs landing, so someone sleeping there

Contacted Airbnb to discuss the situation, the guest's behaviour and get their advice. Airbnb stated I could amend the guest's travel dates and shorten her stay, without penalty (of course losing the monies for the nights not stayed) or speak to her to resolve the situation. 

Mid-messaging the guest regarding the windows and leaving the property insecure, she returned and came to speak to me.
Said I had complained to Airbnb about her, which I had not, but apologised for her son's behaviour. Blaming the other child with them and saying they were just being boys.

Advised her about the windows and not to leave the property insecure whilst out (as it invalidates our insurance), per my house rules.
Also, spoke about the sleeping arrangements, which the guest seemed non-plussed about. 

As a responsible host, I certainly do not want any of my guests sleeping on the floor when there are plenty of perfectly good beds! So, I offered extra bed linen (what little spare I have) and the guest said her son would have to manage.

The guest has also been rinsing off wetsuits, using saucepans of water from the kitchen. Despite me advising I would do this with the hose in our garden. She has also washed clothes in the property, again breaking my house rules (old property, no room for washing machine) and hanging them on the clothes airer, which she asked for to dry the wetsuits.

The situation is certainly an uncomfortable one, to say the least, and the guest does not check out until Saturday. The next issue, beyond grinning and bearing things, is feedback. I feel the guest has not looked where she was coming nor read my listing (which is far from unusual) and, as it almost always the way, I will be blamed for this.

Slightly tearing my hair out as I work really hard to provide a clean, comfortable and cosy property for guests to enjoy and situations like this are extremely upsetting!

3 Replies 3
Linda108
Level 10
La Quinta, CA

I will predict that for every mistake this guest makes, in her mind you will be to blame and it will be reflected in her review, so you have nothing to lose by cutting the visit short.  I also might not have a lot to lose if you grin and bear it.  Perhaps this guest needs a bit more hand holding about how to respectfully use the space and enjoy her holiday with a son and his friend.  Would it be possible for you to have a chat in which you discuss how difficult it must be for a single mom to manage two teenage boys  and what does she need to do so.  Becoming her ally would be a kindness on your part and just might help her enjoy her holiday as well.  Just a thought....

Jillian115
Level 10
Jamestown, CA

@Sarah327  It's unfortunate, but Airbnb has recently made it easier for guests to book, and in doing so, guests now bypass house rules when booking. It's up to us to educate everyone who books with us because they will not see the rules most of the time, and if we complain, we get penalized. Thanks, Airbnb!

 

There is probably not much you can do at this point. But if you're uncomfortable, I would let them know it's not working out and shorten the reservation. But keep in mind there is a good chance they never saw the rules, to begin with. So you may want to talk to them and see if you can get them to understand and comply.

Quincy
Community Manager
Community Manager
London, United Kingdom

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