@Kia272 @Lorina14 @Joan2709 @Greg2406
Thank you all for your suggestions. Here is the rest of the story...
I contact him via text and told him the violations of the house rules. He said "do what you need to do". Then he texted me saying that the roof leaked and he hit his elbow and "be glad it wasn't my lady". And that he was going to do what he needed to do. He said he had photos and a video of the water coming in. I replied "I will be there in 15 minutes to evaluate the leak". He sent back that it was earlier that day. I said "I'm on my way". Let me mention here that I volunteered with the police for 10 years and was not worried about conflict. When I arrived I was very pleasant, shook his hand and asked him to point out the leak area. I could not see anything wet. He had a cooler with water in it and a towel under it and said the this was the leak water. It was clear, unlike what a leak from wood ceiling would be. I did not confront him, but I got a ladder out and felt the ceiling. It was not damp and actually had some dust clinging to the beam where he said the water was coming from. I put the ladder away and asked him to step outside where we could talk away from his two guests. I told him the reason form providing guest information, the reason for our policies, and the reason for extra charges. I think he understood. I also asked for photos of the leak and he said he doesn't have them anymore. While talking he said that he never reads house rules or anything. He offered to pay cash right then but i refused and said that it would be processed through AirBnB. After I left he sent me a text saying that the grill wasn't working properly. He said he couldn't get it to heat over 240 degrees. I told him that when it's 20 degrees out, propane grills do not heat up well. He later sent a text and said that he cooked his meal in a pan and that it was fabulous. I sent back "glad to hear you had a fabulous meal". Later both his girlfriend and her friend left. He acted like he was leafing too, but after they left he stayed and even locked the door (he had not locked the door before, even when they went out for the day).
Today my wife and I met the cleaners at the cabin. We were pleasantly surprised that the cabin was clean, tidy, and had no smell of smoke. Yes there were a few things not quite right, but all in all it was good.
I sent him a text thanking him for leaving the cabin clan and tidy. I told him that we are not going to ask for the additional occupancy fee and the additiona cleaning fee. I also told him that if he had said that he didn't read the rules and was sorry, we could haves handled this in a different way. He wrote in our guest book that the roof leaked and the grill doesn't work, but he also wrote that his girlfriend left and that was the "best part". He also had said that his mother died 4 days ago and that's why he was so stressed and upset. After looking him up on Facebook, we found that his mother died 6 months ago.
Our security camera recorded him leaving and his final jesture of giving us the finger on both hands.
So that's the rest of the story, Not perfect, but it could be worse. Again, thank you all for the input.
