I think I am in the same situation right now..
I have not declined the request yet..
The thing is that the host is not replying, so I sent him a message where I asked him to honor the original deal, or cancel the stay on his part. I gave him 24 hours to reply.
I cannot find the option where I get the ''host to cancel'', is this because I haven't declined the request?
As far as I've understood the steps are:
-Ask the host if he can honor the original deal
-If not, cancel the request, and then select the '' make the host cancel'' option
-wait out the host?
What happens if the host doesn't cancel?
I'm a fairly new ABB user, so im a little anxious right now.
Thanks for the helpful information, allready provided.