@Laura2592
Yes, I hear you. Maybe I am similar to you in that respect, I don't know, but people do seem to 'open up' to me about very personal things and often when they barely know me. For example, the guest I posted about who messaged me at 11pm (after her stay had ended and she had checked into another Airbnb) asking to come over that night to talk about something, which just turned out to be 'boy troubles' and not the significant kind.
Perhaps I inadvertently encourage that because I want to be an understanding and helpful person, but one has to set some firm boundaries.
I have a friend who is a bit like this. She's an old friend so it's normal she should share intimate things with me, but she just doesn't respect my time or personal space or boundaries at all. So, I've had to kind of distance myself from her as much as is possible considering we have a lot of mutual friends.
That is stressful enough. We certainly don't need to have to deal with that stuff with our tenants!