Okay, I don't know how to explain my question.
1 - I do not want to turn off Instant Booking. We have had very good luck with that so far.
2 - These two situations came across as Pre-Approved or Decline and, bad me, did not really get that because I haven't had that in the past.
3 - I (within the last half hour) pre-approved the one who wrote first. I did not realize it was an INQUIRY. When I pre-approved, I chose the option to block those dates on my calendar. I will unblock them if she decides not to book.
4 - The month long one was also an INQUIRY.
5 - The month long person is dealing with a medical situation and I do not want to accidentally mess anything up for her (or me) with Airbnb. I ASSUME I should DECLINE her request and she can book when she has definite plans. OR
6 - Should I pre-approve the month long person and then SHE does something on her end?
Again, sorry. I really am not usually a dense person. %-]