Been living 14 years in South East Asia and we are well aware of the culture here. I understand how the thinking process works and to mix it with the way we trust people you need to take hits because Asian culture in not fully compatible with Western culture. So far we have amended to our customers way without any problems. This is the second time the abuse occured amongst more than 100 of guests, We had wonderful guests 99.9% of the time, but this one booked under false pretense and the guests are different from the one that booked. This breaks the trust you built with your guest and the AirBnB model.
We have fixed the issue with the customer now.