I'm sharing an apartment with the host's mother and her sister. They have been polite and respectful, and they are superhosts with positive reviews.
However, there is a circumstance change as the mother fell sick shortly before my arrival and nowadays, there are always visitors in the house during the late evenings and weekends.
They would gather in the living room and talk/laugh, and being uncomfortable with staying in the living room, I'd retreat to my own room. They would also use the dining table, eg. today the granddaughters came to visit her and were studying at the table, the host politely asked if I could eat at the sofa instead (which I dislike as it is not confortable position to me). Oftentimes, I also need to share the dining table with her relatives - although I can, I just feel uncomfortable having meals with people with whom I don't know well. Sometimes, one of the host's brother-in-law will come and he smokes. Although he does it discreetly, eg. directing to the window, in general there's a lingering smell and I'd always retreat to my room and close the doors. There are also one-off inconveniences such as the host's niece bathing and I had to wait to prepare my meal (so that she had hot water to bathe). Once, the niece also stayed over and I only found out the next morning. During the weekends, I try not to be home as I know there are visitors and I try to avoid them much as I can. Of course, on some days, the mother will go to the host's place instead and the house will be calm, but I'd never know.
It's my first time renting a private room and I did it because I wanted to reduce my costs. The host's mother and sister are very nice too, and have also helped me on occasions (eg. Taking in the laundry when I was out and it rained, etc). However, I didn't expect and won't adapt to the constant visitors in the house. Previous reviews do not mention about visitors. I understand that the host's mother is sick and the rationale of having visitors but it's making me feel even more restricted in the house. I also don't feel appropriate to bring this up to the host or her relatives because it's their house after all.
I still have about 50 days in this apartment before I move out, having already stayed 30 days. I am actually looking at other options for my remaining stay but I know I'd incur a loss of 1 month if I move out now. I also understand that the rental goes to the host's mum, who had to stop working recently due to her illness. They aren't bad hosts too, just that the visitors part is a bit too much for me to take and I didn't expect it.
Is there anyway that I could go about doing this? Can I feedback to Airbnb? Can I cancel my long-term stay and contact the resolution centre after that? I'd want to leave, but I don't want to affect their rating, but neither do I want to incur a huge 1 month loss (about 450 euros). Or on the contrary, am I being selfish/antisocial and have I set my expectations too high? Is this what is expected of renting a room from someone?
Thank you for reading my post.
Sincerely