Host left me a false, slanderous review. What are my avenues of recourse?

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Carolyn266
Level 2
London, United Kingdom

Host left me a false, slanderous review. What are my avenues of recourse?

My friends and I chose this particular Airbnb for its cleanliness, lush beds and central location, but upon our arrival, we were greeted with floor mattresses in place of beds, a musky odour, general lack of cleanliness and hygiene and rude hosts. It was so decrepit that we booked a hotel on the last day of our trip as our quality of sleep was suffering. Needless to say, I left a negative review, giving the host a 1* (the single star being for the listing's central location).

 

To date, after receiving my feedback via private correspondence on the cleanliness of her listing, the host has been bullying us with accusations of "wrecking havoc" and "throwing wild parties" which allegedly destroyed the flat (she has ~ 17 listings within the area), and has left me a highly defamatory review following our contentious correspondence, which do not have a shred of truth in it. 

 

I've quoted our respective reviews for your easy reference: 

 

Host's Review: 

 

"NEVER rent your home to Carolyn if you don't want your home to be COMPLETED TRASHED and POLICE called in by your neighbor multiple times a night! She should be BANNED from Airbnb and It was our BIGGEST MISTAKE to host her and we hope this bad experience doesn't happen to any other host anywhere in the world!!! Below is what happened, she's been causing headaches since the moment she booked! When Carolyn made an instant booking, she asked for a 6 hours early check in, which we don't normally do and we do charge an early check in fee. Carolyn then asked if she can drop in her bags 6 hours earlier without paying the early check in fee. Again, we told she that t cleaners won't be there until a few hours prior to the check in time, she then asked if she can drop in the bags when the cleaner came. We again told she that if she want to check in early or drop off her bags early, she needs to pay an early check in fee, this is standard everywhere on Airbnb!!! After her 4 nights stay, we noticed the home was COMPLETELY TRASHED with sand everywhere on the floor, beds and sofa! shopping bags left everywhere, even cooking salt was in the bathroom!!! This is NOT OVER yet! Next day we received a complaint from building management that the neighbor complained from the day they checked in until the day they checked out. Police were called in multiple times during the 4 nights and there were loud musics and people keep going in and out until 5am in the morning!!! When we politely messaged Carolyn to find out what happened that night, she was VERY RUDE AND AGGRESSIVE and blaming myself, building management and neighbor trying to collude and blame she for something she hasn't done!! Why would 3 different people only met you once or haven't even met you in entire life try to put together a detailed story to blame you for something you haven't done?? Especially involving the police!!! Her excuse was ridiculous and unbelievable Carolyn has NO RESPECT to other people's home and should not be on Airbnb!! I hope no other host would ever be in my situation again, this is the WORST GUEST we ever hosted!!!!!" 

 

My Review

 

"Hi Christine, Thanks for letting us stay at your apartment. The flat was very centrally located and we could walk to areas like central and Surry Hills every morning. But that is as far as our praise for the flat goes, as its cleanliness was highly lacking. A few examples: the kitchen’s amenities were covered in muck, cleaning sponge was mouldy and stained, the fridge had leftover food from previous stays in it - so much so that we didn’t dare use the kettle either. Another glaring issue was the cleanliness of the bed linen and towels, which had funky, stale odours that did not alleviate despite washes in the flat’s washing machine. In the end, we bought towels to use instead of the ones provided. As for accuracy to the listing’s pictures, whilst the layout was identical, the mattresses provided were different - the ones we got barely covered the bed frame as they were only a few cm thick, and one duvet did not come with a duvet cover. All in all, despite having a centrally located apartment, our overall experience ended up in disappointment, and we did in fact book a hotel stay for our last day in Sydney because the quality of our sleep was suffering. Otherwise, a saving grace is that Christine is a highly responsive host. We realised that the airconditioning system was faulty, which resulted in 4 people having to shift into 1 bedroom, and Christine did promptly provide us with a mobile heater the day after. She also dropped off a hairdryer as ours was missing from the flat." 

 

 

I'm quite frustrated as it seems that Airbnb only allows us to respond to review itself - is there anyway to escalate this to Airbnb for investigation / to take action against this host (who seems to have a trend of using bullying tactics against alot of guests, according to reviews left on her page)? I have picture proof of the lack of cleanliness of her flat when we checked in, as well as our private correspondence which shows quite clearly that she has been the aggressor from the start. 

 

Appreciate all the advice I can get.

 

Thank you!

 
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Niel3
Level 10
Llanberis, United Kingdom

TBH her review speaks for itself with its ranty style and capitalised words everywhere. I would have just responded to it calmy and simply with something like "Nice work of fiction in retaliation to complaints made about the hygiene of the property", as satifying as it may be to have witten your reply a lot of people just won't bother reading it all compared to a single calmly worded sentence. However any host with any sense will see it for what it is, though if she has given you a thumbs down it may harm your ability to book automatically in future.

 

I am not sure, as you're not a host are you permitted to deactivate this account and open a fresh one if need be?

 

 

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@Robin462  It really is a mystery. I cross-referenced to see whether this host has a pattern of leaving bad reviews for his guests ( this is sometimes the case with picky hosts), but he reviewed other guests well. Seems like he just didn't like you for some reason. Maybe he was irritated that you messaged him what he thought was excessively, he seemed to find you high-maintainance. He may be used to guests who just do their own thing without issue and he barely hears from them.

Helen3
Top Contributor
Bristol, United Kingdom

 

Hang on a minute.

 

I appreciate that @Carolyn266 has come on this forum and offered her view on her experience of her stay, but we have only one side of the story.

 

A few things don't add up.

 

1. Why didn't you do as Airbnb advise on your booking confirmation and contact them and the host if your listing wasn't as described? And ask them to cancel the booking and help you find something else?

 

2. Did you ask for early check in/baggage drop off 6 hours ahead of check in?

 

3. Did you leave sand and shopping debris in the listing?

 

4. Did you party till the early hours throughout your stay resulting in the police being called multiple times?

 

There is nothing in your review that would have had Airbnb remove it unless the host could prove it was factually incorrect. Even then as hosts we know it is incredibly hard to get a review removed.

 

EDIT - just check and your review was not removed. It is still on her page. Why do you say it was removed?

 

Would you be able to feedback on these points?

Yun8
Level 10
Auckland, New Zealand

@Helen3

 

I think @Carolyn266 means that her own public response to the host’s review was removed by Airbnb.

Carolyn266
Level 2
London, United Kingdom

Hi Helen,

 

Personally, my first port of call would instinctively be to communicate my dissatisfaction to the host itself, and I would think that only after the host has had the opportunity of rectifying the problem and has it still fails to meet the mark, would I take the issue to Airbnb - this is a courtesy that I am willing to extend to preserve a host-guest relationship. Ultimately, the circumstances did not make it viable for us to seek airbnb’s help to find a new apartment, as the holiday was too short to take further risks with Airbnb, which is why we opted to book a hotel at the end of the day. 

 

Asfor the rest of the allegations: 

- yes, we did request for an early check in, but as explained in my review, it was a mere request to see if it could be accommodated. We were not persistent or aggressive in making such a request. 

- no, we did not leave any sand. 

- no, we did not host any parties. 

 

Airbnb explained that my review was removed because I had quoted excerpts of the messages between myself and the host (which I had used to objectively shed light on the matter - for any reader’s sake). 

 

Cheers Helen. 

Helen3
Top Contributor
Bristol, United Kingdom

Thanks for coming back @Carolyn266

 

Yes of course you should contact the host first, the problem is that when you didn't get satisfaction, you didn't do what Airbnb suggests and contact them within 24 hours so you could cancel the booking and find more appropriate accommodation if the listing wasn't as described.

 

I can still see your review on your profile but not hers.

 

I can see now why your review was removed as you went against their T&Cs for leaving a review.

 

I would definitely go back to Airbnb and ask what proof the host provided of late night noise and partying with people coming in and out until the early hours.

 

If they don't have building management complaints and police reports as the host claims maybe they will edit the review.