@Lisa810
Do you mean you recieved a "Guest requests that you cancel" message? If so, DO NOT click "cancel" because it will become a host-cancellation and YOU (host) will be punished - click "keep reservation". If you don't respond either way, it will automatically become a host cancellation as well.
Guests do not need agreement/approval/confirmation of any kind to cancel a reservation. Sending that message is a loophole provided by Airbnb to guests that basically TRICK hosts into assuming responsibility for the cancellation.