Hi David, you are absolutely correct. Pretty new to hosting. It has been a learning experience. I first learned that requests were paid customers and the days are pending till you accept or decline. At first we used to send an approval and find out they had no id. Then it was like pulling teeth to get them to submit their id. Later i learned the difference between the request and the inquiry. So i called support. They said if i did not want to continue getting requests from unverified guests i would have to turn off instant booking. If you turn off instant booking you do not have the option to check the ID required to book. So instant booking it is. If an inquiry came in i started checking for identification, knowing they were not blocking the calendar. I tell them, I’m happy to host you once you complete your profile confirmation with your id as required to book this space. Although my listing clearly states ID required many would ask why or claim they have been many places in the world and never were asked for ID. They had reviews to prove such. I would decline inquiries stating does not meet house rules. From June - Sept i was only cohosting. So i finally thought i got the hang of how to re frase my response and did not approve or decline guests without ID letting them know this booking requires ID, once your profile is verified with your ID your reservation will be approved. This month i listed my property with instant booking and all my reservations are coming in request to book and it does not show on the map. I called support, only to be told that i had denied 2 request and 7 guests had canceled their reservation so until I stop declining i will get only request to book. Although those were for property i cohost. I am basically penalized. So far i have booked 13 guests on my property and all have had ID with previous stays, profile pics etc but my property is not visible on the map with instant book. I was told they were gonna monitor and after my 10th booking the listing would show. So bottom line ID required or not you will still get unverified request on IB, be careful not to decline to many requests even if you say does not meet ID requirement. It is quite frustrating learning as you go but I’ve learned that IB or not you get unverified requests. You have to convince them to get it done. Most of those are new to Airbnb. Not just that but some add their ID , book and then remove it. Seems like were in between a rock and a hard space. I hope Airbnb will fix that problem one day soon. It becomes quite time consuming.