Your home is lovely and your description very welcoming, @Claire637 . I did notice that under your rules you invite your guests to treat the home "as if it was their own". Perhaps you have posted rules in the house but you might not be able to get extra cleaning fee from the security deposit unless the guest obviously created damage by the slovenly way in which they treated your home.
Of course you would not recommend the guest so your thumbs down review should include a short description of the guest treatment of the space requiring additional costly cleaning. Other hosts will benefit from your honest review but unfortunately you will not.