I cancelled a reservation. Cancellation policy was strict with grace period. I have lost my deposit, in its entirety. But here's why I am frustrated.
I asked the host to switch weeks, to another timeframe. I didn't know I could have attempted that before cancelling. Apparently, even though I the guest initiated the cancellation there were a bunch of fees that would come out of their pocket because of their cancellation policy. I requested that the host deduct any and all fees they might be charged, and apply the remainder of our deposit to a new week. Nothing at all was amenable to this host. And here's how I feel this situation was complicated.
When trying to negotiate the change of dates, very nicely, I was referring to a number of $768.50 that the AirBnB site showed and indicated would be my partial refund. Also, it seems that AirBnB was holding the deposit from this host until the check in date of the cancelled booking. The host also suggested her payout from AirBnB was adjusted based on her cancellation policy and a service fee.
In order for me to effectively negotiate a change of dates I could have really benefited from understanding those details. If the host is being truthful (i can't tell) then there is 0 incentive for hosts to work with folks that have cancelled to make alternate arrangements and/or find a win win resolution.
What do you say as hosts to folks who want to try to redeem some of their deposit? This deal cost me $871 for nothing, and I never want to deal with AirBnB again. It seems we all have skin in the game and should want a resolution. Or not?