Hi Becky,
I agree with you about airbnb favoring the guests over the hosts. I had a similar experience during/after the Sonoma/Napa fires in northern Calif in October. We rent a house there that escaped the destruction although homes were destroyed just a few blocks away. There was an evacuation for 2 weeks and our long-term (6 months) guest was fully refunded even though the evacuation was lifted and she could have moved back in. I agreed with the refund for the 2 weeks she was unable to live there but wanted to compromise for the remaining 10 days. This was a very emotional time for me and felt very unsupported. The case manager in Ireland hung up on me and no one called back or returned emails even with my multiple attempts to get a response. I finally posted my complaint on their Facebook account per the suggestion of a fellow host and got a call back within hours. They don't want anything negative in social media and removed it pretty fast We finally worked out a solution that made me feel better. The bottom line is they are a big business and need to learn much more about customer service. We are their customers. There would not be guests without hosts!