@Michelle-And-Michael0
Hi to the pair of you and welcome to Airbnb. I really hope that you can have the fantastic run that I have had and share in meeting some wonderful people. You don't realise how many there are out there until you start to invite them into your home.
Now, first up, what did you actually receive? Was it an enquiry or a reservation request. If it was an Enquiry this would have been in an email in a green box which said 'Pre-approve/Decline'....or if it was a booking request it would have been in a red box which said Accept/Decline?
Michelle....or Michael, there is a big difference between the two! If it was an 'enquiry' that is what we call a fishing exercise. The potential guest may have enquired with five or six hosts in your area and is trying to find out if your property is available or simply ask you a question or two. A booking enquiry will come to you as a result of the guest clicking the 'Contact Host' tab on your listing page and inserting dates. You first and foremost must either pre-approve them or decline them, and you have 24 hours to do that. Obviously it is in your interest to do that fairly quickly because the longer it takes you to respond the more chance the enquiry will go somewhere else.
If you pre-approve them that does not commit you to a booking, nor the guest, it does not block your calendar and you are free to take another booking for the dates requested by that enquirer. What it does is open up a message stream with that person and tells them, as of that moment your listing is available. The pre-approval remains in force for 24 hours from the time it was granted by you. If the guest does not proceed to a booking request in that 24 hours the enquiry drops off the system and that is the end of it, no further action is required on your part.
Now, if it was a booking request you must accept that request or decline it within 24 hours If you do not you will receive a black mark against your name for not responding and Airbnb will remove listings if they feel the response time is consistently too negative.
If you accept that request that means the guest has paid their money and a reservation is in force for the requested dates. If you decline the booking a box will appear asking you for a reason for you declining. Simply click the appropriate suggestion and that will be the end of it. Be aware that Airbnb will also penalise hosts who they feel are declining too often.
To your question, if you did not either Pre-approve, accept or decline that enquiry/request that came to you in the 24 hour time limit then that will affect your response time statistics. The fact that you chatted via message for a considerable amount of time does not count, you firstly have to state your intention to the guest and the Airbnb system.
Now as far as this request is concerned, we all had to start from somewhere and the fact that this guest has virtually no background is not neseccarily a bad thing! How long have they been a member of Airbnb? Have they recently joined or is their profile an old one.
If they have been registered with Airbnb for a considerable amount of time and have no background and you have not had a return response I would contact Airbnb in Sydney on 02 85203333 and ask them to provide more verification on this guest and ask them what alternative arrangements can be made that will not affect your response time if that 24 hour window expires.
Sorry this is a bit long winded but it is important that you understand the rules around reservations. If you do the wrong thing it can have a negative impact on you for a long time into the future.
All the best Cheers......Rob