@Elisa73 It is my understanding that the yes / no questions have been rolled out to all hosts. I would very much like to see a listing where this isn't the case.
This is an effort on Airbnb's part to for guests be able to search quickly for listings that suit their needs. Most guests don't read the fine print in the House Rules that hosts write since, depending on the host, they can evolve into lengthy dissertations. If I am a guest that has a children or pets, I want to know which listings accept them and don't want to waste my time reading through host house rules that say, "yes but... "
I understand that you don't want to be put in a box either way but I'm afraid you'll need to make a decision one way or another and then explain in your House Rules what your gray area is. I have a No Pets policy, but I still got a reservation request from a woman who has a Service Dog for medical reasons and I still accepted her reservation. I've also gotten requests from people with small children despite the fact that my listing is not Family Friendly. So if a guest really wants your place, they'll ask.
Could you provide an example of a listing that doesn't have these yes/no options checked?