@Ann489 That wording they use "Make guests feel welcome by accepting requests whenever you're available" is so angering and insulting, and stupid to me. Of course hosts are going to accept requests for available dates if the request is appropriate. We're in the hosting business, for pete's sake, not the declining business. Instead, they are basically telling us we should accept any and all requests, regardless of whether the guest is asking for things we don't provide, whether or not their messages to us are polite or curt or nasty, whether they have a history of bad reviews, etc.
Do you try to get guests with inappropriate requests to withdraw their requests? I know some hosts use this tactic. A message like " Hi XX, thank you for your request. As you can see from my listing, we don't accept pets, and I'm sorry, but we don't make exceptions to that rule. I advise you to withdraw the request, so that you won't get charged by Airbnb for a reservation that we can't honor, and you can then find a listing that conforms to your requirements- I know there are many who accept pets."