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Hi I need help from the Airbnb community please.
The airbnb host was offended because I rang the doorbell when I checked-in and made a very rude comment after I left my honest review on Airbnb. They said I was a terrible human being after I left a review that was honest. I never used those kinds of words to describe them. It was a long review because I included my honest experience that also included that positive things that I felt about their place (which was edited out by Aibnb), but I felt uncomfortable by them and I was barely at their house.
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perfect guest. When I checked out, they said they would give me 5 stars and thanked me for staying. PLEASE HELP, I've never been treated this way by any host I've been with in person and in writing. I apologized for ringing the doorbell the very first day and the were angry when wrote how I felt about my stay. I don't think anyone should be treated this way.
@Matthew285 Thank you for your response and I’m sorry for misunderstanding as well. After the discussion and clarification it makes sense. I also thought you meant the review.
I will keep that in mind for the future. I did not want to be direspectful to the host because it was not easy for me to write a review that was not a positive experience. This was a learning experience.
@Gordon0 Thank you so much for understanding. I would never want to make my Airbnb hosts feel uncomfortable and would leave if they ever felt I made them feel that way. It made me feel less than happy when I stayed at their Airbnb and if they wanted me to leave the first day because I rang their doorbell, I would have left.
You're absolutely right. I have met some of the kindest hosts though Airbnb. I'm glad that these kinds of hosts are rare.
I just had the guest from HELL leave my home. She and her dog were not housebroken.
She arrived a week early with another male guest that I did not know was coming. She had implied that her dog was a small well-trained dog....it was a rescue dog about 100lbs. The group arrived late from Oregon (they said they lived there), the license plate said Texas and Air BnB had here home out of Florida. She paid for a smaller room (still very large with a walk-in closet) but I put her in the luxury room. She was on a three-month stay (a visiting nurse). She would go to work at 7 am and not get back until 6 pm. The dog was in the room all those hours without a pee break. I had given her the phone numbers of 2 local dog walkers and a doggy daycare (she was a member of a local-national doggy daycare). Her dog used my carpeting as a pee-pad. Maria was very aware of this. Then she would open the slider and allow the dog to pee on my back deck....the private deck in her room. She would not pick up her dog poop and when she did she would leave the bags of poop on the front porch. After numerous times of asking her not to do that. The dog would go to the windows, standing on my Drexel-Heritage sofa, bed and two chairs. When I showed her to the room I asked her to keep the dog and the tile area when she was gone and not allow the dog on the furniture. The dog would sleep on my bed and not on his bed. When I went outside the dog would go CRAZY on my furniture, barking and clawing the furniture and the windows and deck screen. The dog tore holes and ruined the screen. Damaged the sofa with his clawing and crazy barking and charging the window and slider.
My guest used my bathroom vanity for cooking and ruined the finish on the vanity. I had no idea she was going to do the cooking in my bedroom and she was not given permission to do so. Maria would light candles for a worship ceremony, I had only flameless candles for the bedroom and the separate room with the jacuzzi tub. The odor from the "ceremony" bothered my other tenants and was so strong it made you gag. She would not use my furnace for heat because she bought two space heaters the made the electric bill soar because she would keep the slider open for the dog and turn the space heaters on. I had to call an electrician because she plugged so many the two space heaters and a hair dryer in on the same circuit. It was so bad the electrician said I was lucky she didn't burn the house down. I asked if he needed to go in the room and he said no...when you see the meter running this fast you know it is a space heater. The electrician explained this to Maria (downstairs). I showed her how to run the furnace and posted the four easy steps on the furnace. The other "renter" was so hot...I asked her to close the vents in her room and open the window.
Maria claimed she smelled a gas leak in my home. I told her that my house was all electric and I had carbon monoxide detectors on each floor and they are very sensitive.
We had a big rain storm and there was a leak in the roof in her room. I had the roofer out immediately. Gutters cleaned out and the roof totally went over ($5000)...this was my charge. She kept hearing water drops when it rained....the roofer came out 3 extra times. He said the water was dripping from the trees on the roof. I let her know this. Every other day she would have a complaint if I said anything about her dog barking, clawing all day, and poop left around the house or the full poop bags left on the front porch, the odor coming from her room.
She would accuse me of going into her room without permission (which I never did-I have a knee replacement and stairs are very difficult) so I started giving her 3 days notice to get in the room (I wanted the drywall fixed...the drywall repair was about a foot long). The drywaller said it had to be done in stages and he was NOT comfortable with the dog. He said let's wait until she and the dog are out.
She named called me and my luxury home ($800,000, gated, security, etc) and a room approx. 1200sq ft. It got worse from there...she called the sheriff. Thank God I was talking to Air BnB when they walked into my kitchen. I HAVE LOVED EVERY GUEST THAT CAME TO MY HOME THROUGH AIR BnB. I have received 5 stars from all of them. They have ALL loved the master bedroom. My rooms are 1200 thread count sheet, top of the line mattresses, all the extras-poster bed, triple dresser, armoire, sofa, chairs, walk-in closet, costly furniture ($25,000 oriental nightstand), original artwork (that I took out of her room because of her 3 different locations Texas, Florida, Oregon). THIS GUEST DID THE SAME THING TO THE PERSON SHE STAYED WITH BEFORE ME...HER DOG PEED ON THE BED, ETC.
I’m so sorry for your situation. It is not acceptable for any guest to not be respectful of your home.
Rita, I have a hard time understanding why you just allowed this guest to stay on at your place when she started off from square one breaking your house rules and lying to you. Had you notified airbnb to cancel her reservation the moment she showed up a week early with an unmentioned companion and a 100 pound dog, you could have avoided all this.
I would also like to make it clear that I believe that other guests had good experiences staying with the hosts I referred to. I am sad that I cannot share that experience. I wrote what I found positive in my review, but then those comments got cut out by Airbnb.
I also know it is not appropriate for a host to say to their guests, "I wish we had never crossed paths, you are a terrible human being" after a guest like me writes a review that reflects their experiences there. I never used that kind of language in my review and I wish that we could have had a honest dialogue about how we can both improve instead of having a host say condescending things. I notice when their other guests write less than positive reviews for this host, this host does not respond in a professional manner. I want to respect each host and space I share and this has been a learning experience for me.
I had similar problem whit a past host . I left a 4 stars review and she become upset and she made a false comment on my review .
She said bad things about me like I stole here batteries and I was a loud guest!
I contacted Airbnb support and nothing they could do.
well ... I started calling and email every day for 2 weeks .. leaving feedback calling again and at the end I won!
they cancelled host comment and issued 25 dollars bonus 🙂
try to do the same
@Alessandro479 Thank you so much for understanding. It made me sad that the host would leave a false comment. I took full responsibility on ringing the doorbell and I apologized and was able to get the Airbnb app on my phone and followed their directions.
Thank you again for understanding my situation.
@Rita257your very interesting and horrifying story is going to get lost in this thread. Maybe a moderator can give it its own thread? I allow dogs but they are never ever to be left in the space alone and any hint of damage or lack of housetraining and I would evict the whole group or make the owner put the dog in a boarding facility. By the way it is just STUPID for someone to think that they can leave a large dog alone all day in someone else's house. I have six dogs and I don't even leave (most of) my own dogs alone in my house for more than a couple of hours and never all day. When they are 13 years old and very very calm and quiet then they can stay loose in the house, otherwise they are in a crate or kennel or out in the fenced yard.
@Arisara1I'm sorry that this all happened to you. In future if there is a conflict the best thing to do is only reply publically to public comments. If there is a nasty public comment, just reply that you are very sorry that your actions were misunderstood by the host and that if they had communicated with you in the moment you would have changed your behavior or apologized. The whole point of your public reply is to convince FUTURE hosts that you are not the difficult party in this situation.
@City-Limits-Ranch0 Thank you for your advice. I completely understand and appreciate your help and understand how I can improve in the future. I apologized to the owner on the very first day when I rang the doorbell. I was barely at their house because I only stayed there in the evening to rest. I never rang their doorbell again after the first day. Once I wrote the review, they retaliated by saying I did Everything they asked us not to do and it was hard for me to think that Airbnb would allow a host to be extremely disrespectful and condescending to their guest with the words that the host used.
Again, I truly appreciate the advice. I want to be a respectful Airbnb guest to any host and their home.
I think this host sounds a little unhinged. And it sounds like he is amost resentful having people stay at his place. Seriously...you rang his bell. Not the end of the world. Nearly everytime someone checks into our property they have a question about something I've already answered or posted on the site. But I'm thankful for the rental income and try to answer any and all questions with respect. It's pretty basic. I would rent to you in a heartbeat. And host would. I however would NEVER stay at his property based soley how he responds to people in the reviews. Don't waste time for one more second on this person.
@Allison93 Thank you for understanding and for being so kind. I did not want to cause any problems for this host because I also know they have a family. I take full responsibility for not carefully reading the self check-in instructions about the doorbell. I learned from this experience and I hope to do what I can to be a better guest anywhere I go. I also hope to meet great hosts like you in the future.
also this host seems to rent out with plumbing issues more than once, as in ''shower didn't work while we were here''. One of those reviews had a review from this host saying the guest smelled. Well, I guess that makes sense. No functioning plumbing equals ...?
@Arisara1, next place you rent, read the reviews, between the lines if necessary. Most hosts are keen for you to have the best experience possible!
And most hosts know that a great many guests do not read instructions. Many of my guests try to check in to my neighbours house!
@Sandra126 Thank you so much for the recommendation. I will be sure to be more thorough next time. My review was edited by Airbnb and it cut out the part about my plumbing problem as well. I did not include any personal information so I don’t know why Airbnb took it out of my review. The shower was not working the last day we were there and part of the bathroom floor was wet. In all fairness, the host did offer to allow us to use a different bathroom, but I did not feel comfortable using it or going to the other room by myself especially since I did not feel comfortable with the host or contacting him. You are absolutely right about reading between the lines.