Some guests are better suited to other types of listing than an entire house, which might be what the problem was for this guest. So your negative review might address the match between guest experience in a home and might be better suited to a different type of home. BTW, 2 of your reviews, while mostly positive, did mention that your clean up rules were a bit too much. As host, I do not trust guest cleaning will meet my standards so I would not trust guest washing linens. Besides I like to see if there are any stains I need to treat.
To the review, perhaps you can mention the effects of leaving windows open for a lake house. Also, perhaps you can mention what communication issues you found problematic. Be neutral and professional and give her a rating of 3.