"They don't want to vacation at your house!" Really??? You should have said, "I don't want ..."
I'm in a small, seasonal, resort area, a mile from the beach. Probably 80-90% of my guests are on vacation. Most of the rest come for a wedding, class/family reunion, or other event nearby. That means that all my rooms are usually booked for summer weekends. While I can clean a room and wash sheets and towels, it sometimes requires outside help, if turnovers are close together. There's also the bathrooms and shared spaces (kitchen, screened porch, fitness equipment, game areas, etc.) that my guests can use that have to be cleaned, too. The room may be 200 sq. ft., but the total is about 3500 sq. ft. (not including my private space). And an acre of yard that should be looking it's best every Thursday. And the 28,000 gallon, heated pool. Sure, you got these at your hotel; but did I mention mine are for my guests' private use? Did your hotel provide beach towels, chairs, umbrellas, and even a bag of sand toys? And bikes or a wagon to get it there, if you choose not to drive?
I suppose you ate out while traveling? My guests can save money and satisfy picky eaters while cooking here. They can make pancakes for the kids' breakfasts and grill hot dogs for lunch. S'mores around the fire is always a hit. And I do all the dishes, because they are on vacation.
Yes, I do have a 2 night minimum. There's both time and money involved to do a changeover. Do you really think your hotel/motel washed the blankets and bedspreads before every new guest? I certainly do here.
There are fees for most things in this world; it's just a way of life. My prices are based on what I choose to provide, and what I choose to charge. Fees just get added to that, and I can't do anything about it. (FYI - I don't charge a cleaning fee.) I've even been told by guests that I should raise my prices, since I ask less money and provide more than almost every other similar listing in this area. If I can't get at least $100 ($50/night) from a room (mid-week, mid-winter, cheapest room) I'm not giving up my privacy.
While your comments are valid for you and others who may be just passing through an area, it doesn't begin to cover all the possible needs and wants of an Airbnb guest. I think you will probably be happier in a hotel while traveling, and then you can choose Airbnb when do go on a vacation.