Hey Anita! Fellow host in Dallas that lived in Seattle for many years, myself.
That is rough, sorry to hear about that. Icky feeling having a listing disrespected like that. There may be some problem with their booking - maybe Airbnb is having trouble collecting payment from them, which could put a freeze on either party submitting reviews.
Whatever the issue, I tend to think it is best to strike first/as quickly as possible on these. If you aren't prompted for a review in the morning, consider getting in touch with Airbnb about it on Twitter by DMing them at @AirbnbHelp.