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I recently Hosted a couple for a 2 night stay, They came and booked in and then after a nice chat and talk about their itinary and plans they went out to get food at a local resturant.(we had been in disscussion since April re travel plans ect)
When they returned about 2 hours later they told me they were not staying,stating that my property did not meet with their expectations.
I have got great reviews all season and have been hosting for 4 years, so this came as a suprise/Shock. they had aparently found other accomoadtion and left.
The following morning we were woken up by our dog at 6 barking a at a car that that drove around the house,a bit later 8 oclock the husband of the couple came asking if they had left paperwork in the room we checked the room and found it for them.obviously they had had a rough night worrying about their papers.
Ok I am a host who refunded them the full amount of the 2 night stay, which I did not have to at all but did as a matter of principle.
I was really affected by this experiance,so I was wondering if anyone else has had a simular hosting experiance with a simular couple recently.
R
You can always politely ask them if they didn't give reasons.
Perhaps it's just down to simply the guests not reading the property description - maybe they thought it was the whole house they were booking and not a private room, they might not have read you have a pet living in the property. Who knows really, you can second guess but only they can explain.
You have plenty of good reviews and experience under your belt so although it's easy to say don't take it personally - but don't take it personally and this time next month you will remember the incident only as one of your anecdotes.
Hola!
I have to agree with @Elena87 “don’t take it personally.”
Like you, we take pride in our role as Airbnb Hosts and I think that shows in our reviews. So, if we were to receive a less than “gleaming” review, it’s hard not to take it personal… and we did.
We had a very similar situation happen to us as well. Long story short, we had a couple book with us, locals from a neighboring town (red flag #1). The 2nd Red Flag was when they showed up to our home. The original reservation was for a female and her sister and a couple had showed up at our door instead. We didn’t make a big deal out of it, as the original guest that booked the reservation on Airbnb was there and we assumed the miscommunication was due to a language barrier.
Here’s a back note, with our guests, we always try to maintain good communication, prior, during and after their stay. To do so, we have Saved Messages on Airbnb we send to guests at various times to try and save time and misunderstanding. Since this situation, we kind of added a few more messages and “beefed it up” a notch.
But I digress…
Unfortunately, they were supposed to stay with us for two nights and they ended up leaving/cancelling the morning after. They said there was a family emergency they needed to tend to right away.
Looking back at it, we really should have read the signs. When guests arrive, we always try to greet them at the door. We provide them a tour of the home, go over some of the key house rules and answer any questions they might have. We’ve since also included a “Welcome Message” asking if they needed anything after they had settled in a bit and/or questions.
Suffice to say, these guests assured us everything was fine with the room but cancelled the next day. We felt like they weren’t being completely honest with us, but we didn’t want to pry. Plus, they said it was a family emergency.
At the home they inquired about a refund and, due to our Strict Policy, they were technically not entitled to one. Instead of going into detail however, as they were already walking to their car, we told them to cancel their reservation on Airbnb and send us a request of refund.
They did, and we declined. We did, however, offer them a discount of the same amount of the refund they request for a future stay, as we figured if it was a family emergency that pulled them away, they may want to return and try again.
It became apparent that this was not the case, when we read their review, and saw their score of 3 our of 5 a few days later. Here is their review, it was in Spanish so we translated through Google:
Public feedback: “The accommodation is very good the location is easy and close to many shops to eat and buy toiletries. The hosts are very friendly and the whole place clean and beautiful. The only fault is that you do not feel very comfortable and / or with privacy because they live inside the same house and you limit some things. But everything else is fine.”
Needless to say, we were shocked.
We did call Airbnb to try to have the review, and scores, taken down but, because the guests’ didn’t violate any REVIEW GUIDELINES, that was not an option. However, there was still something we could do!
Luckily, Airbnb allows you to respond Publicly to all reviews left on your page. So we did. Here was our response:
Public response: “Hello [Guest], Thank you, we have read your comments about our house on Airbnb, and we greatly appreciate your taking the time to write them down. In your review you mentioned: "The only flaw is that you do not feel very comfortable and / or with privacy because you live in the same house and limit some things ..." We believe that you may have misinterpreted the listing, A "Private Room" in front of "Casa Completa". In addition, our list clearly states in Guest Access that the guests will share the house with our family ... "In addition, in" Interaction with guests ", we read:" We are happy to welcome visitors to our house ... and the love of interacting with our customers ... We also understand that some customers prefer their privacy and we will be happy to provide you with the space and tranquility you are looking for. "As this was your first Airbnb reservation, we want to make sure you have A great experience. We recommend that for future bookings, be sure to read the descriptions along with the "House Rules" carefully before confirming your reservation. You can even narrow your search by clicking on "Room Type" in the drop-down menu… [a good host will] answer your questions in a timely manner and are willing to answer any questions and / or concerns prior to booking. If there is anything on our list that may have caused confusion, please let us know so that we can make the proper adjustments for the future, since the satisfaction of our guests is our top priority! We hope you continue to use Airbnb and the services it has to offer; It really is a wonderful travel / lodging tool. Thanks again! We look forward to welcoming you and [your guest] again soon! Happy travels, Izzie & Marlo”
Google Translate kind of reworded it a little too much. But I digress.
In the end, we chalked the situation up to “lesson learned.” We made a few tweaks on our listings, added some Saved Messages and reminded ourselves, not to take it personally.
To be 100% honest with you? I think they were expecting to throw a party but was surprised to find the hosts at the home. But that’s just speculation.
Hope this is helpful! Thanks for sharing your story! Let me know if you have any questions, happy to help!
Happy Hosting!
Izzie, Co-Host
LOV Puerto Rico
Thankyou Issie .
For your reply and support.
Over the years most of my guests have been really easy to host and I would welcome all of the back,so yes this recent experiance was a suprise to say the least.
Sometimes I think the cure ethos of the Airbnb experiance is not understood by some guests so their expectations are impossible to meet.
I had one guest complane about a old carpet in the room,it is in fact an antique carpet so has the appropreate freyed ends in some places.they totally did not get it.
So I fully understand your experiance as well and certainly many people do not read everything in the the space decriptions and imformation.
I also travel with airbnb and really cannot complane about any of the cohosts places,we all offer to share a part of our homes and this should be respected by guests.
Happy to share my hosting experiance and hope that it reasshures others not to take simular events to heart.
Happy Hosting to you too!
Rory
My thoughts....I hope they weren't scoping the place out.
I love your attitude and response.
I have had that situation before as well but, I was at work.
The guest asked hours after arrival that I cancel.
I will NOT innitiate a cancellation and "you" must. Plus, have they been to my house?
I called Airbnb to assist with the situation.
I have learned from that experience to change my verbage also and do NOT accept cancellations the day of arrival.
Thank you for your insight.
Dawn
Greetings from nearby Kinsale Rory.
I would not worry too much about the couple, some people are a bit strange about the whole airbnb thing and do not really know what it is all about. I would hazard a guess that they were a mature couple maybe? I have great reviews also, and bend over backwards to provide the best experience but the few issues and occasional 4 star rating are always left by mature couples or mature newbies. There is no pleasing everyone, and taking it to heart only let's them win. Some people expect the Ritz. Getting people to read the listing details is also difficult and beyond our control.
Thank goodness there are lovely guests that keep us going. You have a lovely spot there.
Hi Rosemaire .
Thanks for your positve message.and yes the couple were more mature and new to the airbnb model.
certainly its impossible to please all the people all the time,and its always upsetting when sometime the reviews ratings are lower than you would expect especially when weve bent over backwoods to ensure that everything is order for their stay.
Its great to compare issues and experances and your listing also looks great and hopefully might meet you sometime and dicuss more, as I am often in Kinsale.
Best
Rory
'Mature couple'? Why Rory why didn't you say that in the first place. LoL
I acually have a lot of older couples staying and none ever had any issues, Airbnb covers all ages and that is what makes it such a great system to host with.
But thanks for the interest Fred Lol.
Rory
@Rory28 I agree. I have had guests from age 18 to 60+, and families with infants, and it's been great! I love to say this (opposed to "hate," get it? lol) but the younger guests I expected would be slightly less mature in behavior from my older guests, were pleasently mature!
I "heart" Airbnb!