interesting interaction with international guest

Michael360
Level 2
Virginia, United States

interesting interaction with international guest

So I had 3 guys stay with me from South Korea for 3 nights. The stay was fine, the guys were very polite and were touring a lot of the local colleges here in Philly. When they left I went up to clean the room and the bathroom was a disaster. There was water every where and hair and dirt. I picked up the bath mat and water streamed off of it, not dripped but streamed. I had to put it in the tub and run water over it and it took almost a full minute for the water to staop running dirt brown from off the bath mat. It looked loike these guys were standing on the bath mat and taking a shower but there is an actual showere right there. Anyway so I was irate! I messaged them and asked if anything had happened like a flood or overflow as the bathroom was full of water and hair and dirt. So they messaged me back and said nothing happened they just had a hard time understanding exactly how to work the indoor plumbing, that they thought there was a drain in the floor and that what they had back home was completely different from here. So that immedialtely squashed my anger, I couldn't imagine not having proper indoor plumbing. I don't think they were being rude or dirty I believe it is just a cultural difference and a bit of confusion at something different than what they are used to. I was actually pretty amazed and it made me think, again, how different life could be in another country. Has anyone else had something happen that was a total culture difference thing?

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Bob39
Level 10
Goldfield, NV

I had a Chinese family stay at my house, and when they left they were all dressed up in full wedding attire, and when I went in the house after they checked out, the kitchen floor was wet and the rugs in the kitchen were soaking wet - I had to hang them in the sun all day. I guess these people were using my kitchen as some sort of staging area for their wedding. And apparently they decided that the kitchen sink, with its detachable spray nozzle, would be a good place to wash their hair. (They also decided to steal a decorative object from my house). And I had a family from Germany stay here, and they were amazed and perplexed by the garbage disposal in the sink. I had to explain to them what it was for. According to them there are no garbage disposals in Germany. So plumbing and fixtures can vary from country to country.

Teresa40
Level 1
Kamloops, Canada

Understanding cultural differences is one thing but not being able to ask questions or answer them as a host makes it hard if not impossible to resolve issues. Best to write out all expectations just at time of initial contact with host . We learned today as simple as assuming the temperature of our hosts home was 30 degrees Celsius and unbearable frantic opening of all windows left host feeling quite insulted and my husband and I frustrated and uncomfortable needless to say their lack of English was and is a barrier to effectively hosting guests in our opinion. Plus,having no coffee maker or dishes either forced us to eat out when we had planned meals to eat out an information book inEnglish would certainly help things along!
Andrea9
Level 10
Amsterdam, Netherlands

Not my own experience: another host on the forum found his toilet broken after hosting guest(s) from India.

Most toilets in India are for squatting, so much so that they have little signs hanging above Western-style toilets depicting that they are not mean to be stood on for squatting.

I now have such a little sign prepared to hang up in case I'll be needing it 😉

BarbGrace0
Level 2
Bradenton, FL

Oh my goodness , that is good to know, that we should let the guests from that area , aware of American bathrooms are nothing like where they come from, 

good story, 

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