Demanding Guest Advice

Diana320
Level 3
San Diego, CA

Demanding Guest Advice

would like to get some input from this community.  I have a renter for five weeks.  She has been here for three nights so far.  She has had lots of requests for things....and now, she is asking us to buy her a mattress topper for the bed because she has back and neck problems.  She says the mattress is too firm and she is not getting used to it.  At first, I thought, okay.  But she is so demanding in the way she asks....what do you all think?   Should we buy the mattress topper for her ($120)?   What do you think?  Just got superhost status and don't want to lose it.  

 

By the way, other renters have told us that they love the mattresses which are about 1 year and 1/2 new.

 

Thank you for your help.

 

Diana

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Jo461
Level 2
Indonesia

@Diana320  Hi Diana, I would definitly buy the topper. Firstly you have a 3 week booking which leaves plenty of profit there to make the guest happy. Sounds like you are making a regular business so it's a worthwhile investment that can make alot of people happier. Both my mother and I have sensitive bones and skin and need extra softness so I can relate. A topper doesnt make the bed soggier it just cushions the top layer. As a host I do everything to make the guests stay more comfortable and this request is surely something that will benefit others too so its not just for her.

Also the above things mentioned absolutely as well, dish towels you can always use, its not money just for her, and she might rotate them more often if shes sensitive to germs.

Flashlight absolutely you should have one for the guests, umbrella yes why not, people are travelling and they dont always have all they need. You will gain great brownie points when the next person asks you for an umbrella and you can say "Yes certainly we always keep one for the guests" you sound caring and thoughtful and this will be rewarded in your reviews. 

About the sharp knives, yes this too, especiall older people need a sharper knife, dont you prefer a sharp knife. I know at times its demanding and more trouble than you thought it would be, but if you get these things, then it will be just done, not something you have to do over and over.

Im sorry but i think your husbands letter was calous and rude because its a 3 week booking. I can understand not wanting to spend the money for a one week booking , but really is that necessary she's staying for 3 weeks! Your running something after all that is for profit so some people will expect higher levels of comfort than others and to me its just sensible to be prepared for that, how much out of your profit is 120 dollars on a 3 week booking???

And to tell people to take it with them....Im sorry but that is unkind and rude. I dont reccommend you ask your husbands advice if thats the kind of empathy he has. If you have to let someone down at least say it kindly like your not in a position to do that, and that you are very sorry.... Please try and get a more compassionate attitude and always remember the golder rule, what would you like if you were staying somewhere else. You may not have the hutspa to ask, like she does, but you may well appreciate having the comforts that please you.

@Diana320   I agree with @Jo461  perspective.  I find I enjoy hosting much more when I assume an attitude of being a gracious hostess with a picky guest than focussing on the negative.  Interestingly, when I am that state of mind, I do not feel that the guest is so superior and I am a "lacky" doing their bidding.

Cormac0
Level 10
Kraków, Poland

@Diana320 

 

Give your guest her marching orders, you don't need this tihS.

Cormac0
Level 10
Kraków, Poland

@Diana320 

 

anecdotally, the staff in Ikea tell the most returned mattress are the hard ones.

While I was tempted, I never returned my idea mattress. It took 2 years of wearing in, but now is comfortable enough to get a good night's sleep lol

Diana320
Level 3
San Diego, CA

Thanks everyone.  The timing of her requests were unfortunate as I was preparing for a weekend workshop that I host for 30 couples several times  a year and was already at full capacity.

 

And she did have a demanding tone.  But the good news is that it is resolved and she is quite happy and I agree that the things she asked for were somewhat within reason.

 

Since her booking is for 5 weeks, I think buying a flash light (turned out it was there all along) for herself would be acceptable...not sure why she needed it because we all have them on our phones...but I agree, a good thing to have in a rental.   Thanks to all.